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Be a force multiplier for your team.

The EM Survival Guide.

Concrete skills for engineering managers — managing your energy, your role, your boundaries — so you can scale your impact and still be a person outside of work.

Starts June 22, 20268 weeks · async60–90 min / weekFrom $899
Illustration of a raccoon surrounded by survival suppliesN° 02 / EM

Trying to be the manager you never had.

Raccoons strategising on rough terrain

Navigating new terrain is challenging when you don't have the right tools. Illustrations by Joe Groove.

Nobody teaches you how to be an engineering manager. The training options are a conference once a year, a generic leadership program, or expensive 1:1 coaching. Meanwhile the role got harder: fewer resources, higher expectations, and a public conversation questioning whether it should exist at all.

You're buried in tactical work and not sure if you're asking the right questions. Maybe you end the day completely depleted, or with your mind racing and unable to switch off. You're trying to be the manager for your team that you never had — but how can you give to others what you've never gotten for yourself?

There are concrete skills you can learn to change this.

How to manage your energy, not just your time. How to give feedback that leads to change. How to provide direction for your team. This course is built around being a force multiplier for your team.

When headcount was a vanity metric, managers had value simply as an abstraction layer over a number of people. That era ended. Whether you're navigating the IC-to-manager shift or struggling with the higher expectations of the post-ZIRP world, the skills that matter now are the ones nobody taught you.

You want to be a force multiplier.

  • You're trying to be the manager for your team that you never had.
  • You want to be a force multiplier, not middle management overhead.
  • You've always been the “team player” but now you're wondering what you need.
  • You're buried in tactical work and losing sight of the bigger picture.
  • You're navigating the IC-to-manager transition and it's harder than you expected.
  • You're a new manager feeling overwhelmed and not sure what “good” looks like.
  • You're struggling with the higher expectations of the post-ZIRP era.

Six durable management skills.

  • Sustainable Energy ManagementManage emotional and cognitive energy, not just your time. Distinguish baseline load from optional load that leads to overwhelm.
  • Effective FeedbackA reframe of feedback as a neutral tool for growth rather than a compliance process.
  • Framework for Effective 1:1sPractical techniques for moving beyond status updates to real coaching conversations.
  • Strategy That WorksTangible action plans that bridge the gap between your team's current reality and your goals.
  • Adaptive Leadership RangeIdentify your personal failure modes and consciously deploy different leadership styles to suit the situation.
  • High-Impact Managing UpSecure resources and support with specific, actionable requests for the unblockers only your manager can provide.

Four modules. Eight weeks.

A mix of introspection, practical exercises that apply to your team and situation, and support — with just the right amount of accountability.

N° 01
Weeks 1–2

Support Yourself to Support Your Team.

Everyone tells you to "put your own life vest on first" — but how do you actually do that? Learn to distinguish time problems from energy problems, identify baseline vs optional load, and make deliberate tradeoffs so you can do the right things sustainably, not just more things.

N° 02
Weeks 3–4

Leverage Feedback.

Reframe feedback from something threatening to something useful: your work, reflected back to you. Learn how to deliver feedback that leads to change, mine for implicit feedback as a manager, and make your 1:1s the foundation for development conversations.

N° 03
Weeks 5–6

Lead with Clear Direction.

Learn how to provide direction for your team. Understand what good strategy looks like (hint: it's often simple and obvious), how to carve out thinking time, and how to close the gap between where your team is and where they need to be.

N° 04
Weeks 7–8

Expand Your Leadership Range.

Move from surviving to thriving as a leader. Learn to recognize your default patterns and failure modes, understand which leadership styles work in different situations, and develop the range to lead from choice instead of reflex.

Want to see what the course feels like? Preview the Getting Started module for free.

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Structured enough to keep you on track.

Self-paced and asynchronous, but never alone — a cohort, a pace, and personal feedback on everything you turn in.

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8 weeks, 4 modules.

Self-paced, asynchronous content delivered over 8 weeks.

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60–90 min a week.

Designed to fit into a busy management schedule while still creating space for reflection.

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Audio conversations.

Conversations and reflections from Cate and Jean you can listen to anytime.

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Written material.

Module content and frameworks to deepen your understanding.

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Practical exercises.

Reflection prompts and exercises to apply what you learn to your actual team.

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Personal feedback.

Submit your exercises and get written feedback and coaching from Cate and Jean on every submission.

The coaches.

Cate Huston

Cate Huston

Author · Fractional CTO · Coach

Author of The Engineering Leader, fractional CTO at Twill, and engineering leadership coach. Previously in leadership roles at DuckDuckGo and Automattic, and an advisor at Glowforge. She has been all over the world, but now lives in Ireland.

More about Cate at cate.blog →
Jean Hsu

Jean Hsu

Builder · Coach · Fractional VPE

Builder, writer, coach, and fractional engineering leader at early-stage startups. Previously in leadership roles at Pulse, Medium, and Range, and built out a leadership development company focused on engineers. She lives in Berkeley with her partner and three kids.

More about Jean at jeanhsu.com →

Cate and Jean have been coaching engineers and engineering managers for years. This course distills their best frameworks into structured exercises you can apply to your own team — with personal feedback on every submission.

Common questions.

Is this course only for new managers?
No. While the course is valuable for people in their first manager role, it's equally useful for experienced managers who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or are navigating a shift in expectations (like the post-ZIRP era). If you're questioning whether you're effective or wondering how to be a better manager, this course is for you.
What if I'm thinking about going back to being an IC?
This course can help you make that decision more intentionally. Understanding energy management, what drains you, and what effectiveness looks like as a manager will clarify whether management is wrong for you, or whether you just need better tools and boundaries. Regardless of what you decide, we hope this can help you make a more empowered decision about what you actually want.
Will this work for my specific organization or industry?
The frameworks are designed to work across different organizational contexts. We use examples from tech companies because that's our background, but the principles apply whether you're at a startup, a large enterprise, a nonprofit, or elsewhere. Energy management, feedback, strategy, and leadership range are universal management skills.
Is this course just for engineering managers?
We designed it with engineering managers in mind, and our examples will reference engineering teams. Staff+ engineers may also benefit from the leadership aspects and a broader understanding of what managers do, but it is not directly created for them.
I'm really struggling right now. Will this course help?
If you're burned out, overwhelmed, or questioning whether management is for you, this course can help you diagnose what's actually going wrong and give you concrete tools to improve your situation. Module 1 on energy management specifically addresses overwhelm, baseline vs optional load, and burnout. That said, if you're in crisis, you may also need additional support like coaching or therapy.
Do you offer scholarships?
We offer scholarships on a per-cohort basis. Sign up for cohort notifications and we'll let you know when they're available.
Cohort opens · June 22, 2026

Thrive, not just survive.

Practical management skills for the post-ZIRP era. One-time payment, eight weeks, and Cate & Jean reading every submission.

One-time payment
$899
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